Snake Scarf

A woman who comes to the bakery where I work a few hours each week made this cute snake scarf for Marin last week, her husband made the wooden button eyes. Marin just loves it, so do we.

4 hours in ER and one sling later...

Well here we are, our first visit to the Emergency Room!

The Story: Marin and I (Holli) were home packing boxes (if you don't know we are moving--I'll write another blog about why) and Marin decided she needed to retrieve all of her babies from my bed. I think there were 4 dolls she had set up on my bed to rest with and according to her, they were all crying and "they need me". I followed her into the room to make sure she was not going to jump on the bed (which is her all time favorite activity--Todd and I are great spotters) once I saw she was just gathering the dolls and her intentions were to bring them back out of the room I turned around and headed back to the living room to resume packing. I was listening all the while to make sure she did not start jumping, it makes me really nervous for her to jump on the bed with no one watching. I had not even picked up the next item to pack when I heard her fall off the bed. I ran back to the room to check on her, there was no screaming or crying. As I reached her she was standing up and said "my arm" but didn't actually start crying until she grabbed my neck.

She and I went over to the couch and sat down to cuddle, and at this point I didn't think she had actually done any damage, she was just fussing. However her fussing soon turned into crying and finally I called my friend Paige to find out what I should do, she suggested I first call our hospitals pediatrics department. Once I got in touch with the nurse on call she recommended we just go right over to the ER because it sounded like we would be needing an x-ray. At this point I started crying too. Todd arrived home at this point with the intention of going for a run, going out for pizza and packing for the rest of the evening...

We arrived at the hospital, with Marin asking the whole way "where is my dock-e-tor?" Everyone we saw was very kind, like all emergency rooms it did take a very long time--4 hours. Which means we did not eat dinner until 10:30 pm, but that Marin got to watch cartoons, which is always a treat to a child who never gets to watch television. She also got lots of stickers.

Diagnosis: according to the x-rays there was fluid on her elbow which 60% of the time means a fracture so Dr. Light who was attending the pediatric unit that night called in a doctor from orthopedics to view the x-rays. Dr. McCormic informed us that he did not see a fracture (which meant we did not have to wait for another team to come and set the bones, and put on a cast) however there was swelling which can cause other problems if it gets worse. But seeing as the accident had happened 5 hours before the actual x-ray was taken and there was still light swelling he thought she would be fine with a wrap, half cast fabric type material to hold a bend in her arm/elbow, and put her in a sling. He quickly and carefully wrapped her arm, Mairn was very brave and the told him "thank you" very quietly with her bottom lip stuck out.

We were dismissed, ate a quick sandwich, which brought about more tears because we had been talking about getting pizza for dinner that night and Marin was not about to let us forget our promises for her bravery (we will be having pizza for dinner tonight). By the time we actually got home and in bed it was 11 pm. Marin slept well for about four hours and then woke up saying it hurt, we gave her more motrin and she slept for another 4 hours. Her spirits are good and she's doing really well figuring out how to do things with one arm.

After this whole experience we are very thankful we did not have to have a bone set, surgery, cast, or more severe swelling which would have meant spending the night in the hospital. I do think we are all ready for an early nap though.

News From A Toddler

At this point in Marin's life she only has two friends who have no siblings. She is the only child in her Sunday School class who is an only child, and when we have play dates with most of our friends they also have siblings. In fact I would say the majority of our close friends average 3 or 4 kids. Back at the beginning of the Fall Marin started to realize this, probably because one of my good friends was having baby number 3, it was her first girl, and we were very excited for them... meaning we talked about baby Olive and her arrival a lot. When Olive was finally born I informed Marin that Lincoln and Wells now had a little sister (Olive), to which she replied, "No! Marin's little sister!" That was the first time she had ever said anything like that. From that day forward she bagan her "matching-family-together" game. Which goes like this: "Jonas' daddy name?", "Jonas' brother name?", "Jonas' sister name?", "Jonas mama name?" and then moving on the her next friend, "Lulu mama name?", "Lulu brother name?" and through the whole list with each family. She still plays this game. I truly believe the birth of Olive sparked her understanding that most other families she knows have KIDS in the house, which means some are big and some are babys, but no matter what she has realized that she does not have other kids in her house.

Well this is going to change in September... yes we are pregnant! It comes at a busy time in our lives as we are uncertain as to Todd's job situation. But as some wonderful friends have put it, "Isn't that just the way God works. You have a wonderful blessing to lookforward too, while you are in the midst of something unenjoyable." Either way we are looking forward to this new journey in our lives, and Marin is extactic! In fact she just cannot keep from anouncing it to everyone, including random farmers at the Farmers Market, or the manager of our apartment complex. So in her words here is her way of announcing our news:

I'm big sister--Baby in tummy!--Hear heartbeep next week!!!

My favorite part is that she thinks we are going to hear the heart "beep"
I'll post some pictures soon.

A few moments to catch up

I have not put any resent pictures or stories on our blog in a long time. I have been a bit crazy these days, while I still take care of our little friend Parker, I have added tutoring a 3rd grader two nights a week and I just got a third job at a little French bakery up the road. So I have been doing the training on top of my other jobs. Starting in January I will slow down a little as I will only have Parker 2 days a week, but still be tutoring. I'm really excited about my bakery job. Its low stress (meaning I'm not chasing two 2 year olds around), and it brings a bit of balance into my life (I'm getting out!). I love being a mom, I love doing attachment parenting and I loved nursing my child. However, this is probably the only time I am going to be able to do something that is unrelated to raising children for a while. No we are not expecting another baby yet. But at some point I hope that another baby will come around and at that time I will dive back into my over-protected "cannot be seperated from a nursing baby" postpartum life. So Todd has adjusted his schedule to work from home a few more hours a week, and Marin and daddy hang at the house together. We'll see if it works out. We still value and pursue moments of 'sabbeth' in our lives to give Marin as much consistancy as possible, and so we have tried to make this little adjustment as smooth as possible, and so far it seems that she loves her days with daddy, and loves it when I bring her home a treat from the bakery. As I mentioned in a past blog she used to be a high needs sleeper, so when we make changes or have any type of adjustment going on we work really hard to make sure everything else in our lives is consistant and low stress so that it does not affect her sleep. So far she is still sleeping like a baby!

OK I want to post a few pictures of our trip to the beach with my mom. My mom and her husband Tim flew to Panama City and met us at Grayton Beach for a few days to celebrate Christmas. It was a great time to rest, chat, and get beat by Tim in just about every game we played...including the ones we taught him!

One of the highlights of the trip was my mother waking up each morning early gathering up a wakeful Marin and playing together while Todd and I got the sleep for another hour! That never happens, once Marin wakes up, sleeping time is over. We also got to take a few walks alone and spend one moring in a coffee shop reading, thanks to my mom and Tim playing with Marin. I love having family around for some free babysitting.

I brought Christmas decorations to the cabin
Home Sweet Home!











We did get a few warm days when we first got there so we put our suits on and played in the sand, and my mom got in to ocean... and yes it was cold!










Todd is taking Marin's socks and sandals off (no I did not choose that for her to wear, she often picks out her own cloths these days, thus we end up with inside out socks under sandals!)










Marin got splashed by a wave! She's so cold.
















Marin and Mommy playing in the sand















Grandma and Marin painting while Todd and I sleep late!














A great place for a picture, everyone out of the car... I don't care how cold it is, its a great time for a picture.






Hey we just got a picture of all three of us! That never happens.















One more trip back to the beach before we say good bye.










Watching for dolphins with Grandma and Grandpa.








We love Christmas at the beach!




p.s. the Christmas tree dress came from my grandma, Marin's greatgrandma, and Marin loved wearing it... like every day! I think it was the star button at the top that really made her fall in love with this dress because she made sure to point it out to everyone.

The Prayers of a Toddler

Part of our bed time routine is to pray together, after a story... or a few stories that is. Either way we love this part of our evening, mostly because Marin loves praying and takes it really REALLY seriously. SO I wanted to share tonight's prayer with you all.

Mommy: Marin are you ready to pray?
Marin: Pay Parker--sick, healfey, safe; Mama--safe; Doddy--safe; Papa John--safe; Parker--safe play outside; Doddy--safe; food good; Baby Merebeth--AMEN!

She often prays for her friends and family, but tonight she added a dinner prayer to all her safe requests :)

Autumn Fun

We love Autumn in Florida, we really like it that about 9 months of the year feel like Spring or Autumn and then the rest is Summer. Here are some family photos of our little Autumn adventures.

For starters just because you think a toddler is quiet does not mean they are sleeping! Marin is such a girl, she just loves any kind of cosmetic!

Cuddling on a cool Fall morning with daddy.

Cedar Key Seafood Festival



Marin was invited to a Halloween themed birthday party for her little friend Lulu. The kids could come in costume if they wanted and so Marin went as some sort of a garden pixie. After lots of fun, sugar, petting baby goats, jumping on the trampoline, and other fun birthday party events, she was beat, and didn't even make it a mile before she was asleep. Notice all the paint on her shirt, this is from painting pumpkins.

Fall Festival at our church, good times!

We hope you all are having a wonderful Autumn too! We'll post some pictures of Halloween soon!

What's Your Avatar?

I was looking at a friend's blog (hey Robin) and she had done an avatar of her husband and herself. Well today I am home trying to rest after having a wisdom tooth extracted this morning, and taking some meds that might be altering my state of mind. But all that put aside, you all should do this thing its so fun. This is what my family looks like. Now keep in mind that Marin is like 19 so its a bit futuristic for her. But it makes Todd and I look years younger
Marin

Todd

Holli

What fun!

Toddler Art Party

Today we hosted a little art party for Marin. She and her buddies of course had a wonderful time. I'll let the pictures speak for themselves :)

Making noodle necklaces

Elliot and Marin on the parachute





Paint walking


Paint falling, it was very slippery

Marin and Hazel making cupcakes


Chalk drawing



Marin is cleaning the paint off herself and Lulu is giving her moral support :)

Words From A Toddler Part 2

I noticed a few more funny Marin words today and wanted to add them to the last post. One week from today Marin will be TWO! Crazy!

Marin's Dictionary:

yikedis = I like this

peesehelp = please help

doddy make dat = daddy made that

doddy makedis = daddy made this

doddy wookin' = daddy's working

*we have noticed that Marin does not believe in ending words with "ing" but "in' " e.g. swimmin' walkin' workin' talkin' cleanin' playin' doin' climbin' jumpin'. These are just to name a few :)

Favorite Words From A Toddler

As Marin approaches TWO we are encountering many new phrases and words or word combination's. Here are just a few:

Yip-kiss = lipstick or chapstick

Roller = roll over

Pinkin = penguin

April = oapmeal

back-kak = backpack

Poop wimming = hey look my poop is swimming in the toilet

ee-oo's wimming white mullk = cheerio's swimming in while milk

bieto baby = swaddling a baby a.k.a burrito

bieto Mae Mae = Marin is burrito-ed

see yies = see this

debble hole = devils hole (Its a sink hole in town)

lellow kool bus = yellow school bus

doddy = daddy

This is our little hippie child wearing her baby to the mail box.

Rolling Rascals

Marin is taking her first gymnastics class, and she loves it! Here she is learning to gallop.
The Ball Pit

Walking up the wedge
Balance beam, one of her favorites. I'm sure there will be more posts with pictures of the rolling rascals class.